Bongani”s Wife

“I wanted to marry Sizani because I loved her and no other woman.”


Oliver T. Spedding

In many countries across the world and especially in Africa and more specifically in South Africa, a man must pay a price to the father of the woman he wishes to marry.

In South Africa this practice is called “paying lobolo” or “paying lobola” and the currency is usually cattle.




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Oliver Thomas Spedding

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